I'm sorry I didn't see your post sooner. How are you doing these days? Any better?
Sounds like you have seen a doctor which is great. It's really good to get all the info to understand your health. No wonder you are grouchy! Those sweats are no fun. & if they are happening at night, then they'll be disturbing your sleep.
I can't really relate b/c things happened differently for me but I know so many women really suffer.
I do know that some ppl have been really helped by Chinese medicine (herbs &/or acupuncture), so that's an option if you are comfortable to try something like that.
If not, I can only suggest staying in touch with your doctor to make sure the hormones you're taking are at the right strength for you.
Good luck with things. It's not easy.