Sorry no one replied to you. Hope you are doing a little better. For me, "extreme measures to avoid abandonment," also includes keeping people out of my life. 1. so I don't hurt them and 2. so they can't leave me or die. It's just safer for me. Lonely though. Truth is, I don't know what to do with people when I have them in my life. Like a child being given an alien toy with 10,000 pieces. All I can feel is that I just don't know where to start and what to do between the time I start until the time I put it all together. Sigh. Wish I had something more enlightening to share.
Joined: 03-18-2014