I have Bipolar II and when I get hypomanic I get very irritated and have bad anxiety. When I express the excess irritation my husband feels like he is the "target" even when I explain it is not personal---I am NOT irritated with him.
We have noticed some triggers, ie pointless TV, so we have agreed when I start to feel irritated we will check the environment and eliminate as many irritants as possible. We have also agreed I will go to a safe alone place if needed but he will check so I know I am not abandoned (if that makes sense)
If the hypomania swings back into depression my husband is already VERY good at supporting me thru that because he has a low level depression (controled by meds) himself--so that feeling is no mystery. I also have a verbal safety contract to call my tdoc if it gets too bad. The depression end is, for me, what is dangerous in terms of possible self harm
We are currently located in a very rural area--necessary for his job, so a lot of my support people are not close enough to be of help.
The free floating anxiety has been bad lately and the only thing I have come up with for that is journaling like mad and taking my as needed med and when I see my pdoc we will probably do more med adjusting.
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