Hi brokendown. I know what you mean. I had a diagnosis change a little while ago which means I am in a medication change which means, right now, I have no medication on board to help with depression.
There are days when it feels like I am hauling a thousand ton weight around. Today was one of those days. I made it out of bed but just barely. The other day I had a crying jag that lasted for many hours and I am still exhausted just from that, never mind the other stuff.
When I get in this kind of depression it actually HURTS. It also hurts when I try to do things to help myself out of the black mood. It isn't a physical pain that I can pin down to a location, but it is a real hurt just the same.
The only thing I can sometimes do that helps is do something anyway. Today I managed to take a walk (15 minutes) and take one of my prn Clonazepam. Clonazepam isn't for depression,but it at least keeps anxiety out of the picture.
Anyway, after the walk and the med I was able to get some creative things done. If I can just divert the black hole energy circuit in my brain to give the energy to something else, it helps--at least for a bit. But it is hard, I have to be both patient and gentle with myself--and that is hard for me to do.
Journaling, both here and on paper helps too. It lets me depersonalize the illness a bit and seperate it from myself. I have bipolar II, I am NOT bipolar II.
This is a good site, I hope we help you hang on until you find a way to feel better. You didn't say if you have any treatment help, if you are feeling like hurting yourself, please call your local hotline. There will be one in your yellow pages. I called mine one night when my hypomania got so bad I could hardly stand myself. They helped me stay calm until my meds worked--then I talked to my pdoc (medication prescriber) the next day and she told me what to do if I ever felt that bad again.
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