Bronxgirl,
You sound so much like me that I had to double check that I hadn't written it.
Emergencies do come up and it probably is a part of life that we have to learn to be flexible. I know that things have come up in my life from time to time that people have to be flexible with me, such as when I am going through a depressive time and can't seem to keep my mean mouth shut.
On the other hand, it doesn't mean that we have to allow ourselves to be taken advantage of. If he/she is regularly cutting sessions short and charging you for full sessions, that needs to be dealt with. As far as not calling you back and being angry with you, a good therapist needs to have appropriate boundaries in place and anger really shouldn't come into play. He/she may be busy, out of town, or attempting to wean you from dependence on him/her.
I am really sorry that you think it is going to be a rough weekend. I hope it won't be. I find Memorial Day Weekend to be a magical time. Some time it is very bad magic, sometimes very good magic. I hope it turns out to be a good magical time for you. Then when you see your therapist on Tuesday, you will have good things to share with him/her as well as your concerns.
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