Hi,
Think of all the overweight women, such as Queen Latifah, who are comfortable in their own skin, and therefore beautiful. I struggle with image as well, but always try to remember that larger women are beautiful too!
With respect to your diet, I can share my experience. When I eat sweets, which I love, it causes me to crave more. It is just a vicious cycle. If you cut back and eat fruits rather than ice cream and greener veggies instead of potatoes and corn and the like, it will help you get off that cycle. At the same time, you cannot deprive yourself of the things that you like. Life is too short!
I was doing Atkins for about a week and quit because I felt crappy and really really deprived. Then I tried Weight Watchers and ended up eating too much food because they tell you to eat as much fruit as you like. So I did. I did not gain, but I only lost about 1 pound a month at best. It was a carb thing and eating too much of a good thing like fruit did me in. I quit Weight Watchers (don't get me wrong I think it is an awesome program, it just did work for me at the time).
After quitting Weight Watchers I joined Jenny Craig. The big drawback there is expense and having to eat their food. The most important thing I am taking away from that diet, on which I have lost 18 pounds on despite my use of Seroquel and Abilify, is PORTION CONTROL. Yup, that is what I needed. Jenny Craig has you eating carb rich foods like cookies and pizza and candy, you just don't eat a lot of those things. Instead of having some sweet treat every day, I have a savory snack instead. For example, I might have a cookie on Monday, a bag of popcorn on Tuesday, and a piece of cheesecake on Wednesday, etc. It keeps the carb monster at bay.
Probably the most common sense approach I have seen, and Jenny Craig emphasizes, is how you make up a plate of food. The new USDA eating guidelines no longer have that food pyramid, but instead show you what a plate should look like. It is half veggies, one quarter starch and one quarter protein. If you eat a lot of filling low cal foods, you can still have a cookie or something later. You just eat in moderation which is doable if you can get off the carb cycle.
Speaking of cycle, exercise, as much as I hate doing it sometimes, is really key to weight loss. It boosts the mood too.
Sorry for rambling!
Good luck and best wishes
Current medications as of 08-21-2011
08-01-2008 - Present: |
Abilify, 20 mg. Daily |
01-03-2010 - Present: |
Lamictal, 300 mg. Daily |
06-12-2010 - Present: |
Synthroid, .137. Daily |
09-12-2010 - Present: |
Vyvanse, 100 mg. Daily |
08-01-2011 - Present: |
Seroquel, 100 mg. Daily |
Joined: 05-04-2011