Hi There,
First of all, CONGRATULATIONS on your clean time!! That is certainly something to celebrate. I am a person in long-term recovery (17 years) and I want to encourage you in your recovery. Wooohoooo!!!
Benzodiazepines are generally not a good idea for those of us with histories of addiction. The MAIN reason for this is that they have such a high tolerance factor. Any benzo will need to be increased over time in order to retain its effectiveness because our brains so easily become accustomed to a particular dose. The need for more and more and more over time can very easily trigger cravings and old behaviors in people with addictions.
Yes, there are benzos that are less addictive than others because they are longer or shorter acting, giving less of an initial "hit" to the person taking it. However, ALL benzos build up tolerance over time (a process called neuroadaptation). So, for this point, I agree with your doc.
Now... for all of the other stuff... if the side effect load of a particular medication is intolerable to you, your doc SHOULD listen to you. Period!! There are so many medications available for bipolar disorder these days that keeping you on a medication that is terribly uncomfortable to you is simply asking for trouble, and it is disrespectful. People become non-compliant with meds that they do not tolerate.
There are also bipolar meds that do not cause such marked cognitive side effects. You SHOULD be able to think straight on your meds. Especially if you are just on ONE med. I am only telling you these things as a reality check. You may not have access to people who have been through the "lab rat" process yet. But, many of us feel that way while we're finding the right med or combination of meds.
If you are having marked anxiety symptoms, your doc should listen to you about that. Anxiety is a key symptom of bipolar disorder. If your mood is stable, but your anxiety is running wild, your bipolar is not being fully treated. It is only being partially treated.
You have the right, as a patient with a medical condition, to have your disorder fully addressed. You do not have to settle for feeling "better." You have the right to feel WELL. If you are not seeing a physician who believes that, then you have the right to see a physician who does. If, however, you ARE seeing a physician who believes that but you are not communicating with him/her clearly, then that is what needs to change.
Sometimes addicts are so grateful just to be clean, that they forget there's more to life. I encourage you to strive for being well... not just for being better. If that means a change on your part, then go for it! If that means a new doc, then start asking around for a referral!
Okay... pep talk officially over. LOL I wish you the very, very best! You have come SO far... and you have an amazing future ahead of you.
Be well,
Jules
Joined: 01-18-2009